the standard of friend

well,well,well...this should be my maiden essay which is English...so i have to spend a long time to read again n check so tat there would not have many mistakes in my English^^
in our life,no one can live without friend...tat is why friend is very important^^
any standard for friends?!
For me,i just have rough idea..for the standard of friend.In this essay i would like to share my idea to you all honestly.
In the word of Chinese,love should be written as '爱'.
There has a word in the bottom of '爱',that is '友'.It means friend in English.
Then, it shows to us that there has love in between friendship!Love is a keyword of friendly.
Before i start to share with you all..i want to share the meaning of LOVE.
In the Holy Bible..(1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-8)
4Love is Patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant 5 or rude.it does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;6 it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. 7 It bears all thing, believes all things, hope all things, endures all thing.8 love never ends.
the expression for the meaning of LOVE is clear n distinct...I really love the expression so much...A life without Love isn't a life..It also means tat we can't live without God,because God is Love.^^
Okay!back to the title...
Love is needed for associating with other.^^If you love a person,you would like to associate with him/her.Then you would like to treat the person as your friend even best friend.right?!
Does it mean he /she will also treat you as a friend..?I don't think so...haha...Usually for the logical thinking, we will think that the other person who we treat as friend,he/she 'must' have to treat us as friend.
I want to mention n emphasize that you love a person n treat her/him as your friend doesn't mean he/she will also loves you and treats you as his/her friend.
You will usually hope that your 'friend' will help you or support you whenever u do something.WELL!!Sadly we can't insist the love from other,but we can hope n wait for their love!^^so sometime we have to forgive our friends even we didn't get any support as well n also forgive that they neglected us, because love is patient.
We should be patience to wait for our friends turning to us again.At the moment they turned, they will realized that we are their real friends...it is worth to be our friends.
On the way of waiting, it will have many chances for us to learn how to love our friends.
perhaps sometime we intend to betray our friends because they did something worse to us before.We may be convinced that it is fair for us to revenge on him/her.In Chinese expression, it is called as '以眼还眼.以牙还牙'and also '人不为己,天诛地灭'.People wan to find a reason which looks acceptable to do sth bad to some one.^^ai...love is not resentful.Therefore if you are really love your friends,you won't try to revenge on them...
It bear all things ,believes all things, hope all things, endures all things,
Can we bear all the bad things that our friends have ever done to us?
Can we believe what our friends told us...and let them to help us?!
Can we hope all the best for our friends..hope that they will understand us ?!
Can we endure what they scold , what they said is meaningless ,grievous and also sarcastic?!
Can we bear and endure all of the worse things they have done to us before and help them whenever they are in need?!
Thank God!!!for He brings many friends stand by me...
Very sorry to my friends, cus i am just a guy..not the God...if i have ever neglected you all...
I want to have all of your forgiveness so that i would be able to do something for you all!!
I can't promise any things to you all...i can't promise to you all that i will be the best friends of you all..sorry...but i will try my best to give you all my love and caring!^^
please give me some comment!Thanks~~~